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Walk Around and Make Small Talk

March 6, 2014

The thing is, what you really need is just confidence and a little practice. Getting skilled in making small talk alone can get you lots of new friends and ladies who want to spend time with you.

Take some time to learn making small talk and you'll be glad you did. But don't think you can overdo it if you don't want to make people think you're annoying. Small talk is just a pleasant conversation with someone. There's no limit of the things you can talk about when it comes to small talk. You should make it a habit to make small talk part of your daily routine.

It's really amazing how easily you can make friends when you know how to make small talk sexy using conversation escalation techniques. There's always some new relationship getting started because something like the weather.

That next friend you meet is just a small talk away if you think about it. Even in the professional world, learning to be great at making small talk will help you. There's a actually a lot of things you can do to make your small talk sexy. It will certainly and surely improve many aspects of your conversations. Just keep reading and aim to make your small talk making ability better than before.

Surely, you've realized that one of the best way to improve is just conversing with people of all ages.

Talking to your neighbor is really a good exercise for this since you don't have to go very far. Don't pick any age bracket, just go ahead and talk to that old dude over there. If you happen to meet some tourists, go ahead and talk to them. Nothing beats practice with a stranger you don't know. Get inspiration from newspapers, cookbooks and magazines of things to talk about. Read any source of information you can get your hands on. Other great sources of small talk topics include television, music, sports, and fashion.

There's the internet where you can read about anything that interest you that might also interest someone.

Even stories you've heard can be a good source of something to talk about. There's always something to talk about, think about your travels or experience somewhere. If you want to practice alone, you can use the mirror and talk there about random things. The more varied topics and the more you can talk about the better. If you know a lot of things, you can talk about a lot of things. Keep in mind that you have to be ready to make small talk any time as it can happen quickly.

Talk to people while waiting in line or while you're in a meeting. You can even make the situation favorable to you when you want to talk to a girl. Try hosting a party or going to one if you want to really get it going. Don't force yourself into the conversation with someone, just keep it natural. You should make her feel comfortable with an approachable body language. Remember that you have to keep making eye contact most of the time as you talk to her. You can be excited to talk to her but you can't be too over eager about it.  You don't want to scare her away by overwhelming her and leaning in too close. Know her already? Just say hi and hello as you mention her by name.

Be direct with her

Being direct works this way and avoid making things complicated for yourself. But for most of the girls you don't know, start with a confident introduction of yourself. If you want to make her feel a little bit special, you can say her name every now and then if you know it. Actually talk to her when you're talking to her. Give her the attention she deserves. Just remember to have some fun when you're talking with her.

It's great when you can accomplish that with just about anyone you can talk to, really.

You can make her want to keep talking to you even if what you're talking about is trivial. If you want to get her turned off, then there's the negative side of things. Even if your day isn't going as good as you'd hope, you don't want to make her feel bad about it. When you can't think of anything to say, blurt out a compliment that's true. Even when it doesn't go anywhere it will make her feel appreciated before you talk about something else. Keep your ears peeled for something worthy to talk about like common interests.

It can be anything like your love for peanut butter and jelly. Something that's sure to make her connected to you is always a good bet.

Remember that anything can lead to something you can talk about. When you can find a common interest, keep to it. When that time comes, you can always say something personal to you and make a connection with her. Don't say something that's too personal though. You don't want to freak her out. Ask her some questions about herself then so she can talk more about her after you're done. Ask her some questions to reveal some information about herself. But be sure it's not something too personal like something about her health or religion or anything inappropriate.

Be sure it's fun and light and positive. Get her talking about what she really likes and let her keep talking about it. Then, based on whet she says, you can then say something else that's funny or another question about what she said. But try not to ask too many question to make her feel at ease and comfortable. This is not an interview that you have to barrage her with questions after questions.  Give her some room to talk but maintain a proper balance between talking and asking. Once you get the conversation going, you can think about what to talk about next. Most of all, you should never forget to listen.

Be sure you're listening intently so you wouldn't miss something important that could lead to somewhere good. Don't worry about talking too much just don't forget to listen. You can make people keep on talking and talking if you can just listen to them. Letting others tell their own opinion will improve the quality of the discussion. By the end of the conversation, you'll have known lots of things about her and she about you.

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